Mary is humbled by this tremendous blessing. However, she responds as we often do; Mary tries to figure out how God is going to accomplish this great blessing in her life. “How can this be since I am a virgin?” she pondered aloud (Luke 1:34). In my own life, I have felt similarly. I wonder how God is going to accomplish the great things He has promised.
Some people find it difficult accepting blessings and favor. Some of us struggle with low self-esteem. We struggle with our worth in the eyes of others. Sometimes we doubt the value God has placed upon our lives. We can all learn from the response of Mary—a young woman with many reasons to doubt her own worth. She was a young girl in a society that devalued women. Mary was poor. Her people were oppressed. Yet, she was open to receive a life-transforming gift from God. Eventually, she embraced God’s favor and exclaimed, “Let it be to me according to your word” (Luke 1:38).
Blessings are also difficult for those who are comfortable with their position in life. Have you noticed that when blessings come to certain people, they often do things that self-sabotage their potential success? Opportunities are squandered. Money is burned. Second, third and fourth chances are washed down the drain. Out of fear, people sabotage their success. Why? Because they are afraid to envision what life could be like if it were better or different. Mary was willing to step up and receive a new calling. She said, “Behold, I am the servant of the Lord.”
Blessings are often disguised as difficulties. Mary was engaged to be married. Her plans—in her own mind—were set. Undoubtedly, she loved Joseph. Joseph loved Mary. They had dreams and hopes for their future which did not include being exiles in Egypt. Their dreams did not include being the guardians for a special Child who would be the most galvanizing figure in the history of the world. Mary and Joseph painted an entirely different picture of what life would be like. This dilemma took place two millennia ago. Yet, it sounds so contemporary.
Young men and women start out their lives with ideals for their futures. They know what kind of person they want to marry. They know what career they wish to pursue. They hold on to beliefs or traditions that are so important that they cannot be changed—not even by God. However, God has a way of doing the unexpected in our lives. We may not see the changes God brings as “favor” or blessings. As we walk down life’s pathway we discover along the way that God knew best.
Has God allowed something unexpected to transform your life this year? Has your vision for your life been revised by a radical shift in your family, finances, faith or future? Perhaps God has blessed you with heavenly favor. Christmas is a time to remember that blessings involve change. Do not be afraid of God’s divine intervention in your life! The story of Mary reminds us that God’s favor transcends our own plans.
